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Friday, October 26, 2007
sekali2 blog macam pensyarah tak bersijil...

*ON YOUR SPEAKER



REKHA - Call 04-2292222 or any nearest Police Station for any information

Today when i read about a 10-year-old schoolgirl from Penang who failed to return home after going out to buy a VCD on Sunday night. Allahyarhamha Nurin's case is still fresh and unsolved and yet these parents are sooooo blooody careless of their children's safety! Even
 stated in the paper that this particular schoolgirl usually goes out at night, with no problem coming back home safely.
 You can't wait for things to happen to your child baru nak hentak kepala menyesal kan?
How can you let ur kid out at night, at a tender age,all by themself? With money to buy stuffs? At pasar malam lagi...haiz...Hasn't Nurin's terrible death taught them to be more cautious and aware that u can't trust the society now?
I tell ya, in this era, u cant even trust ur closed ones! Cos we read about how their grandfathers, step fathers, fathers or even brothers that dared to rape their flesh and blood!

So to all parents out there and even myself, we have
to be extra careful and not take risks. Just 5 minutes leaving ur child unattended at home can even cause u misery all yur life if something untoward do happen to ur child. Dats why we have to doa..
 "Bismillahitawakkaltuallallahi..walahaulawalakuwatailabillahialila'zim.." before going out from ur houses , while sending them to school, or leaving them behind (with ur maid or whoever who is at home..) so that Allah will protect us and our children. We have to love our child to the fullest. Pity them (kasihani mereka) and be with them when they need us. Have yu ever wonder why the contents of doa for ibu bapa is as follows?



“Ya Tuhanku, ampunilah aku dan ibu bapaku, dan kasihanilah keduan
ya sebagaimana kedua-duanya mengasihaniku sewaktu kecil.”

Kerana Allah Maha Adil dan Bijaksana. It is how you treat your child when they were younger. How you love and care for them. How you pity them dan membelai mereka dengan santun dan lemah lembut.
That is why children doa as follows. Sebagaimana you treat your child with love when they were young, that is how Allah akan balas.
 Kasihanilah kedua ibu bapa sebagaimana mereka mengasihaniku semasa aku masih kecil...so Allah will love and pity us, as much as how we love and take gud care of them while our kids are small and young. So kalau kita sambil lewa and did not even handle our own kids, mensia2kan anak, mendera anak2, mengabaikan mereka..this doa will not do us any goood in future.Doa anak yang soleh is what we need, sampai ke liang lahat, wallahualam.
so we gotta take gud care of our kids as long as they are still alive. Don't take things for granted.
I say this also to myself, reminding myself to always love them.


*Cherish them while they are still noisy and running around at home, as they will soon 'senyap' and lock themselves in their own room doing their own business when they reach their teens.

*Talk to them, and answer their continous curiosities as long as they trust yu and always have this motto "MUM IS ALWAYS RIGHT' , cos it will might soon be gone once they have their own bestfrens or even someone special.

*Cherish their existence and never annoyed at their constant disturbance, i know it will not be the same when they grow older.
Praise them when they achieve even the smallest achievements, stop looking at their shortcomings! Even i find it irritating if selalu kena kutuk..

*Get close to them and get to know them better cos kids change..before u knew it. And they no longer love to cling to yu, and slowly drift apart.What's worst, if yu feel dat you dun even know them!


Cherish them before they Perish!!!

enuff said.
Macam pensyarah tak bersijil je..


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